The Best


Father’s day picture credit to HD latest picture

From the moment our angle was born, you were there to comfort, care, protect, educate and LOVE him all the way. I am sure in his own language he’ll probably say ‘I love you’ and ‘You are my hero’ every day. I am very thankful and blessed to have you around when I need you. You have done your best for our son. Thank you for being the BEST Father.


‘Best Dad’ picture credit to Art Fire

You are the most amazing and brilliant person I’ve ever known in my entire life. You know the answer to every problem. You know the way to make me feel comfortable. You where there when I was at my lowest point. You are the reason behind every achievement I’ve made. Thank you for always there to support what ever I do. I am truly sorry for all of my wrong doings. I love you ayah. You are indeed the BEST DAD EVER! You will always be my super hero.

Liebster Award


My very first award! Thank you dear friends for the nomination, Athena and Louise .

The Liebster Award is awarded to bloggers with under 200 followers to try to promote their blog a little and also bring together a community of bloggers. The rules of the competition are as follows:

# The nominated user must provide a link bank to the person who nominated them.

# Provide 11 facts about yourself.

# Answer 11 Questions set by the person who nominated you.

# Choose 11 more people and ask them 11 questions.


11 Facts About Me

  1. I’m a Malaysian and a Muslim.

    Malaysia's Official Flag
    Malaysia’s Official Flag
  2. I’m happily married to the guy that I’ve been dating for 8 years and this year is our 11th year and we are blessed with a handsome baby boy.

    Picture taken during Eid 2013
  3. I am a mixed of Malay, Chinese, Arabic, Indonesian, and Indian. Cool right? ^_^
  4. I earn my MBA certificate on 2012 but prefer to stay at home and care for my family.
  5. I have never been out of my country. Ever! Sad but true. -_-
  6. My goal is to start up my own business. Soon. Maybe in the fashion industry or ceramic industry.
  7. I am the eldest out of four siblings. I have two sisters and a brother.
  8. I love vegetables so much! I will always prepare at least one vegetable meals each time I cook. If not, I will feel like my meal is not complete.
  9. I used to play sports. I was so good at handball, netball, and running. I was on the netball and handball school team. We even made it to the district level.
  10. I love to travel. I like to learn and experience new culture and it’s local economic. I really hope that one day, I could pack my bags and take my husband along, and travel the world. Just imagine, I will be able to photograph beautiful scenery and people from around the world, it will be priceless!
  11. Friendship to me is something to treasure. Over the years, I’ve travel to different places to study (all in my country), and one thing that I’ve learn in, the one that accept you for you really are, are the ones that matters. They will definitely love you unconditionally. Others that does not matters, they will always find your flaws, and to them you are always nothing compare to them. and this people will eventually learn that you have been there for them but move away because they choose others over you. They are the one who is at loss, you definitely wins!

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Since I was nominated by two person, so I’ll be answering 22 questions. So please, bare with me.

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11 Questions asked by Athena

  1. What is your greatest passion? Well I would say, PHOTOGRAPHY. It makes me see things in different perspective. For example, people always say ‘well, the tree is dead, they should cut it off. I might be dangerous’. But the way I see it ‘It’s a beautiful tree and it is the closes meaning to life, because eventually everything dies. The only differences is how you see it coming and how you imagine it to be.
  2. What is your favorite color and why? Always red. It symbolize strength and braveness in a person. I always feel confident when I’m in red. It makes me feel like I have super power.

    My favorite colour combination.
    My favorite colour combination. Source: Google Image
  3. Have you ever been in Love? Yes I do. In fact, I fell in love every day with my other half. Although, I have to admit that sometimes things are not always pretty but that what makes him my other half. He completes me.
  4. How do you feel with difficult moments? To be honest with you, I’m not good with handling difficult moments. I’ve been through it several times and I always, always be at my lowest point. I was lucky enough to have my husband around. He was my strength and my motivation to keep on moving forward. So, at difficult times, always, always keep your loves one close to you. Only they will understand you and love you unconditionally.
  5. What brings you peace? Beautiful scenery, a good literature fiction book, a cup of green tea and a slice of orange cake. It works every time. ^_^
  6. What is your favorite book? Dragonwings by Laurence Yep. My very first English literature fiction book that I book at pay less store. I fell in love on the very first page.
  7. Do you have something that you’ve owned your entire life? I wish I have something, but unfortunately, no I don’t have any.
  8. What’s you best birthday memory? It’s my 21st birthday, I had my very 1st birthday surprise by my husband (who was my boyfriend at the time). He really got me crying the whole way to the surprise location because he said he wants to break up with me. He really got me good!
  9. What’s the most original gift you were ever given? I can’t think of any right now.
  10. What was you favorite holiday and why? I was on my final semester, my friends and I decided to go on a short trip to Port Dickson. The best part was we manage to drag our English lecturer along with us. It was the best holiday ever.
  11. What’s you favorite flower and why? Well, I’m not really into flowers but I must say I love roses very much. One because its my mother’s name Rose, and two because it smells good when it blooms and when it dries out you could use it as a potpourri.

    Source: Google Image
    Source: Google Image

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 11 Questions asked by Louise

  1. What attracted you to WordPress? WordPress will give me a lot more audience compare to the other blog host page. Plus, it’s user friendly and the interface is a lot easier to use.
  2. What is your favorite topic to write about? I like to write almost about everything; parenting, photography, economics, food and etc. But the one that I am interested to write is about my life. My story and how those topic will have influence or related to my life.
  3. If you could change just one thing about the world, what would it be? There is a lot that needed to be change. I can’t make up my mind. I know that everything happens for a reason and I believe God has bigger plans than what we have planned. However, I would like all wars to stop. Stop forever. No more wars, no more killings, no more people dying. No more. Please.

    Source: Google Image
    Source: Google Image
  4. If you could change just one thing about yourself, what would it be? I wouldn’t change anything about myself because I love everything about me.
  5. What’s another hobby you have besides blogging? I love to collect accessories. Yes accessories. Women accessories to be precises such as rings, bracelets, necklace and etc. I used to have a lot of them, but over time, cousins will come to my rooms and take what ever they like and left me with only a few. Sad.

    Source: Google Image
    The types of accessories that I have in my collections. Source: Google Image
  6. What is your favorite color and why? Always red. It symbolize strength and braveness in a person. I always feel confident when I’m in red. It makes me feel like I have super power.
  7. What was/is your favorite subject in school and why? Math was my worst nightmare in primary school, until one day, a new math teacher came in and teaches us math. He was so good that I manage to score B for my primary level examination. Cool right. Since that day on, Maths is my favorite subject.
  8. Least favorite subject in school and why? Chemistry and Biology was the least favorite subject. Because they are too complicated.
  9. If you could travel anywhere in the world (that you haven’t been to) where would it be? As I mention it before, I have yet to get the chance to go abroad. So, there are a lot of places in my wish list. New Zealand, Canada, Rome, Venice, France, Egypt, and other beautiful places all over the world.
  10. What is your dream job (if you had no limits)? Well, I just resign from an accountant position which I think was the best job ever. I love the environment and the work ethic. But, family come first, so I quit my job. I am planning to start up my own business because that is my dream.
  11. Do you have/wants kids? How many? I have a son, who is one year and eight months now. Well, if you ask, I would love to have five or six children. However, with our current cost of living, we could only afford to have three or four. or maybe just two. you’ll never know.


Thank you again for the nominations. I’ll have another post on my nomination and questions for them. Enjoy!

About Me Part II

Nisamir is the combination of my name and the first man that I have ever love, and I will always love him forever, my father. I started to use this name since I left school. It was kind of cool, because most people combine their name with their boyfriend or spouse but I prefer to use my father’s name instead. It gives a more genuine feeling when you actually say it.

Malaysia is my home country, a country where I was born and brought up. I never once leave my country. Yes, I know it’s kind of lame but it is more to ‘never have the opportunity’ rather than ‘just love her country too much’.

Story of my life is not interesting as others, but it is definitely a roller coaster ride. True story. Every where I go, there will be trouble waiting at every corner. But, those are the challenges that I’d to face. Challenges that makes me grow as a person, care and acknowledge my surroundings and always appreciates those who really accept me as I am.

My hobbies keeps me distracted from those who does not matter, while my interest keeps those who matters close to me. I love them, and they will always be apart of my family, forever.


People say that money couldn’t buy you happiness. It’s true that money couldn’t buy such emotions but it could be a proxy of determining the level of happiness. Experience had taught me that money will have effects on the relationship with your friends and emotions.


Source: Google Image

When we were young, friends means a world to us. We share our ups and downs, highs and lows of our time together. Some even pledge to stay loyal to each other no matter what. However, as time flies, and people change, the pledge or promises made seems so childish. The dreams of staying friends forever are destroyed by the greediness of a person. Who would be happy living in a world without friends? For some, it will be good not to have friends that only there when your pockets is full and left you hanging when you pockets are empty. But in time it will effects your emotions.


Stressed Over Money
Source: How to Lose Control and Gain Emotional Freedom

Money will influence the stability of a person’s emotions. It will be very stressful when you have only MYR100 (after deducting all monthly expenses) to survive every month for a household of three. How could one survive? No matter how hard you work the pay isn’t helping much to your financial stability. With friends living your side just because you have empty pockets will only make you emotions worst.

Who would be happy when you are left with no friends and left with emotions instability? But it is not the end of the world! All you need to do is make some changes that best fit your current situation. Look for side income that could help you generate extra money (it is a trend nowadays!). and as for friendship, let those greedy and selfish people turn their back against you because one day, they too will understand. Let’s do our best and pray for the best.

Source: Very best quotes